How to Prepare for Your First Postpartum Therapy Session: New Mom Guide
A complete guide to preparing for your first postpartum therapy appointment, what to expect, and how to make the most of your time with your therapist.
The bottom line: Your first therapy session is about getting to know each other, understanding your struggles, and creating a treatment plan. Preparation helps, but showing up honestly is what matters most.
Why Preparation Matters (But Don't Stress)
Taking the step to schedule postpartum therapy in Austin is a huge act of self-care. A little preparation helps you feel more confident and makes the session more productive—but remember, there's no "perfect" way to do therapy. Your therapist's job is to meet you where you are, not judge how prepared you are.
Think of preparation like packing for a trip: it makes things smoother, but forgetting something isn't a disaster. What matters most is that you show up honestly and open to the process.
Step-by-Step Preparation Guide
Complete intake paperwork in advance
Most therapists send intake forms before your first session. Fill these out thoroughly and honestly. Include your medical history, current symptoms, pregnancy/birth details, medications, and what you hope to achieve in therapy. Completing paperwork ahead saves valuable session time.
Track your symptoms for a few days
Before your appointment, keep a simple log of your mood, sleep, anxiety levels, and any specific struggles. Note when symptoms are worst, what triggers them, and how they affect your daily life. This gives your therapist a clear picture of what you're experiencing.
Write down your goals for therapy
Clarify what you want from therapy: "I want to feel less anxious," "I want to bond with my baby," "I want to enjoy motherhood again." Be specific about what feeling better looks like to you. Having clear goals helps focus treatment.
Gather relevant medical information
Bring a list of current medications (including vitamins and supplements), recent medical diagnoses, and contact information for your OB-GYN, primary care doctor, and psychiatrist if you have one. Your therapist may want to coordinate care with other providers.
Prepare your birth and pregnancy story
Be ready to discuss your pregnancy experience, birth story, and postpartum recovery. Include complications, interventions, NICU stays, or traumatic moments. Even if you don't think it's relevant, birth experiences often impact postpartum mental health.
List questions you have about therapy
Write down any concerns or questions: How long will treatment take? What techniques will we use? Can I bring my baby? What if I cry? How do I know if it's working? Your therapist wants you to feel informed and comfortable.
Arrange childcare or plan to bring baby
Decide whether to bring your infant or arrange childcare. Many postpartum therapists welcome babies in session, but some mothers prefer focused time alone. If bringing baby, pack everything needed (diapers, bottle, pacifier) so you can relax.
Plan logistics the day before
Confirm your appointment time, know the office address, check parking options, or test your video link if virtual. Leave early to account for traffic or feeding/changing baby. Eliminate logistical stress so you can focus on the session itself.
Give yourself permission to be emotional
It's normal to cry in therapy—especially the first session when you finally express what you've been holding in. Your therapist expects this. Bring tissues if it helps you feel prepared, but know that showing emotion is part of the healing process.
Approach with openness and honesty
Be as honest as possible, even about thoughts that scare or shame you. Therapists have heard it all, and they won't judge you. The more truthful you are about your struggles, the more effectively they can help. Therapy only works when you're genuine.
What to Bring to Your First Session
Insurance card and ID
For billing and verification
List of current medications
Include dosages and prescribing doctors
Symptom log or journal
Helps therapist understand patterns
Written questions
So you don't forget what you wanted to ask
List of therapy goals
Gives direction to treatment
Medical/psychiatric records (if relevant)
Previous diagnoses or treatment history
Water bottle
Crying and talking make you thirsty
Tissues
Emotional release is expected and healthy
If you forget something, don't worry—your therapist has everything they need to help you. The most important thing you bring is yourself.
What to Expect During Your First Session
During your first session for our new mom therapy program, you'll have space to share your story, discuss your current challenges, and develop initial goals for your 8-week journey. Most first therapy sessions last 50-60 minutes and follow a similar structure.
Introduction & Rapport Building (5-10 minutes)
Your therapist will introduce themselves, explain confidentiality, review policies, and help you feel comfortable. This is relationship-building time.
Your Story & Current Struggles (20-30 minutes)
You'll share why you're seeking therapy, what symptoms you're experiencing, your pregnancy/birth story, and how postpartum life is going. Be honest—this helps your therapist understand your needs.
Assessment & Questions (10-15 minutes)
Your therapist may ask specific questions about mood, anxiety, sleep, support system, trauma history, and current functioning. They're gathering information to create an effective treatment plan.
Initial Feedback & Treatment Plan (10 minutes)
Your therapist will share initial impressions, explain their recommended approach, discuss frequency of sessions, and answer your questions. You'll collaborate on goals.
Next Steps & Scheduling (5 minutes)
Book your next appointment, discuss any between-session work or resources, and clarify how to contact your therapist if urgent needs arise before the next session.
Remember: The first session is as much about the therapist getting to know you as it is about you evaluating if they're the right fit. You don't have to commit long-term after one session—it's okay to try a few therapists before deciding.
Common First-Session Anxieties (And Why They're Normal)
"What if I cry the whole time?"
Why it's normal: You've probably been holding in emotions for weeks or months. When you finally have a safe space to release them, tears often flow. Therapists expect this—it's part of the healing process, not a problem.
What helps: Bring tissues if it makes you feel prepared, but know your therapist has plenty. Crying doesn't mean you're "doing therapy wrong"—it means you're being honest.
"What if I'm judged for my thoughts?"
Why it's normal: Intrusive thoughts, ambivalence about motherhood, and even fleeting thoughts of escape are common in postpartum mental health struggles. Your therapist has heard it all.
What helps: Remember that therapists are trained to understand postpartum struggles without judgment. Honesty about scary thoughts is essential for effective treatment—and your therapist will never shame you for being human.
"What if I don't know what to say?"
Why it's normal: Sometimes the emotions are so big and tangled that finding words feels impossible. You might feel foggy, overwhelmed, or just blank.
What helps: Your therapist will guide the conversation with questions. You don't need a perfect speech prepared. Start with "I don't even know where to begin" and let your therapist help you untangle the thoughts.
"What if they can't help me?"
Why it's normal: When you've been struggling for so long, it's hard to believe anything will help. You might fear you're "too broken" or your situation is too complicated.
What helps: Postpartum depression and anxiety are highly treatable. Most mothers see significant improvement within 6-8 weeks of consistent therapy. Your therapist has helped many mothers who felt exactly as hopeless as you do now.
Can I Bring My Baby to Therapy?
Short answer: Usually, yes! Many postpartum therapists welcome infants in session, especially if childcare is a barrier to treatment.
Benefits of Bringing Baby
- • No childcare stress or cost
- • Therapist can observe mother-baby interaction
- • You don't have to rush home for feeding
- • Easier to make regular appointments
Benefits of Solo Time
- • Undivided focus on your emotional needs
- • No interruptions for feeding or changing
- • Dedicated time just for you
- • Easier to open up without baby present
Ask your therapist's preference. Some sessions might work well with baby present, while others benefit from your full attention. You can also alternate—bring baby sometimes, arrange childcare other times.
After Your First Session
What to Expect
After your first session, you might feel a range of emotions:
- Relief: Finally someone understands what you're going through
- Exhaustion: Emotional processing is tiring, especially when sleep-deprived
- Hope: A treatment plan exists, and recovery is possible
- Vulnerability: Opening up can feel raw and exposing
- Uncertainty: Is this the right therapist? Will this work?
All of these reactions are normal. Give yourself permission to rest after the session. Drink water, be gentle with yourself, and remember that healing is a process, not an event.
How to Know If It's the Right Fit
After 1-2 sessions, ask yourself:
- Do I feel heard and understood by this therapist?
- Do I trust them with my vulnerable feelings?
- Do they have experience with postpartum mental health?
- Am I comfortable with their treatment approach?
- Do logistics (scheduling, location, cost) work for me?
If something feels off, it's okay to try a different therapist. Fit matters—and finding the right match is worth the effort.
Ready to Take the First Step?
At Bloom Psychology, we make starting therapy as easy as possible. Dr. Jana Rundle specializes in postpartum mental health and creates a warm, non-judgmental space for struggling mothers.